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    November 05

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    The below is a guest post by a . . . TOTAL . . . STRANGER . . . BWAA HAA HAAAAAA.  As part of Blog Share 2009, we each submitted anonymous blogs round the rosie, as they say.  Mine is out there on someone else's blog, anonymous.  Below the post is a list of all participants, should you fancy a stroll around what people write when they have the words "anonymous" to protect them.

    I'm at a crossroads.

    Until now, everyone I've ever had a relationship with, every guy who I thought might possibly be "the one," was always like me.  We shared the same interests and hobbies.  We liked the same kind of stupid movies.  If I watched a TV show, I could be pretty sure they'd like it too, because we just liked the same sort of stuff.  I'd get along well with their friends and family; they'd get along well with mine.  We fit perfectly in each other's lives. 

    Couldn't have been that perfectly, since none of those relationships lasted.

    And now I've started dating someone who is different in every way.  He doesn't share my interests.  He'll sit through a stupid movie with me because I like it, but I know he thinks it's stupid.  I can't imagine introducing him to my friends and family.  I know that the longer I spend with him, the more I'll end up less interested in what I currently like.

    Normally, with so little common ground, I'd just give up and look for someone I'm a better fit with.  But it isn't working.  Every time I go out with someone else, someone I have more in common with, I end up thinking about this guy, and that he's just better than them.

    He's a smart man.  He's a good man.  And there's this part of me that's curious about who I'll turn into if I spend more time with him.  I'm comfortable with who I am now, but I think I might like being her better.

    Not the Daddy: http://notthedaddy.blogspot.com
    O is for Olson: http://oisforolson.wordpress.com
    Red Red Whine: http://redredwhine.com
    Rediscovering Me: http://leavingthecocoon.blogspot.com
    Reflections in the Snow-covered Hills: http://snowcoveredhills.com
    The Reluctant Grownup: http://gilliangaladriel.spaces.live.com/
    Sauntering Soul:http://saunteringsoul.blogspot.com
    Serendipity Now: http://serendipitynow.wordpress.com
    Snarke: http://snarke.net
    So, This Is a Treadmill: http://sothisisatreadmill.blogspot.com
    Thinking Some More: http://3carnations.blogspot.com
    Time for Change: http://ngradstudent.blogspot.com
    Together They Come: http://togethertheycome.wordpress.com
    Wondering and Pondering: http://wonderingandpondering.wordpress.com
    And You Know What Else: http://andyouknow.wordpress.com
    Andrea Unplugged: http://andreaunplugged.wordpress.com
    Arctic-ulate: http://arctic-ulate.blogspot.com
    Bright Yellow World: http://brightyellowworld.com
    Bwildered: http://bbwilder.blogspot.com
    Catheroominations: http://catheroo.com
    Did I Say That Outloud?: http://tracyoutloud.blogspot.com
    Dispatches from the Failed Mommy Club: http://failedmommy.com
    Full of Snark: http://fullofsnark.com
    Heidikins: http://heidikins.com
    Hot Chicks Dig Smart Men: http://hotchicksdigsmartmen.com
    Just Below 63: http://littlepieceoftexas2.blogspot.com
    The Little Goat: http://thelittlegoat.com

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    Michellewrote:
    Good luck! That's what I thought about my husband when I first met him... we couldn't be a better fit for each other, it turns out!
    Nov. 5
    Guys can't change who we are. That is built into us from the day we are conceived. Guys, just like any other living thing, can change how we perceive ourselves and our surroundings and open our eyes to things we never had access too. It's always fun to find a seperate, yet compatible human being to show us new and exciting things!
    Nov. 5
    No namewrote:
    I thought that about a guy once.....and I ended up married to him!
    Nov. 5

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