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    October 18

    We Went To A Festival

    And it was great.

    Crescent City Blues and BBQ Festival.  A crowded streetcar ride, a short walk, lots of music and people and good food smells.  We ate hot dogs and burgers in the city park with hundreds of our fellows.  Jack washed the park sculpture with a wet wipe, and we tried not to cringe.  We wandered through vendors and stands.  We heard music.  Jack slept on my chest as we hiked to the streetcar stop, and further slept all the way home.  We crashed on the couch and ate frozen pizza for dinner, spent.

    A glorious day in the city.

    I put up a few pictures, at the end of the album above!

    September 29

    City Living

    I have pages and pages to read for my 8:30 Contracts class tomorrow.  But just now I am watching our cat sleep luxuriously on the dining room table, our short-legged dog fervently and persistently testing all vantage points around her to see if now can I reach? Here?  Can I reach here?  How about here?  Can I reach her now?  Cat cat cat cat cat cat reach the cat cat cat cat can I reach here?  Etc.

    I am myself enjoying the heavy-limbed ache that is the fruit of a punishing gym routine.  I feel stretched out, well fed, and pleasantly exhausted.  Today has been a day well-lived.  The air conditioner next door loudly whirs.  A distant siren wails, tinny and removed from me.  My son snores, and the cat.    Contracts beckon, but I hold the subject off for a few more minutes, and paint in my mind's eye the memory of a Tuesday night in my first year of law school, mundane and yet lovely.  Few are the nights when I comfortably exist in my immediate circumstance, but this is one of them.
    September 13

    I'm MEEEEEELLLLTTTIIIIIIING

    It is hot in this house.

    Patrick has gone to church without us.  I am hacking and nose-blowing my way through the morning, relying on Ms. Tele Vision to be babysitter.  Jack watches Disney froth, Virgil runs from couch to couch, bored out of his mind, and the cat is sprawled on the cool tiles in the back hall.  She has the right idea.

    I can't wait for the cooling month of October.  We're wilting down here.

    Along with my hair, my clothes, and my lovely potted plants that I dragged all the way here from North Carolina, my blogging inspiration is falling flat.  Sorry.  I hate to just throw out status updates, but the well has temporarily run dry.  My old stand-bys just aren't doing it for me.  It's hard to wax poetic on my love for my son when I just want him to take his hot sweaty little body OFF ME RIGHT NOW, go play, leave mama to blow her nose in peace.  I lack the energy to search for pretty pictures of places I've lived for Five Environments.  I Drink Your Milkshake is on temporary hiatus, although we will most likely be moving again, and I'll probably revive it, ooh la la.  I can't have any more angst about whether or not I should go to law school, and now that I'm in it I don't find it to be too terribly hard.  I could bore you, as I do my husband, with stories about some of the outrageous cases we read . . . but, as I mentioned, it would bore you, so why waste the energy typing?  We don't have cable so I can't discuss what's on tv.  Gawd.  I'm not bored, but I sure am boring.

    I'll come up with something.  Maybe we should turn down the AC a couple of degrees . . .
    August 30

    Saturday

    Late wakeups.  Coffee and magazines, Jack still in bed.  Adult quiet for a few blissful moments.
    Up, dressed, in the car.  We leave our urban home, looking for Nature.
    We find her, dear god, Nature with all her enormous spiders and enormous flightless grasshoppers black as night and enormous alligators rolling, trolling through bayou.
    A hike, one with no change in elevation, on life-saving, elevated boardwalk, as the calculating reptilian face ponders our toddler's chubby legs, dangling from the Ergo baby carrier like Tantalus's fruit - deliciousness, just out of reach of his jaws.  Thanking, again, the builders of the elevated boardwalk, which intervention saved Mama from having to tussle with an alligator.
    Then he is asleep, face planted in the middle of Dad's sweaty back, as we rumble through the tropical, spideriffic forest, steamy, swampy, hot, heading back to the parking lot where I shake out my hair.  No spiders.  After, we stop for gluttony at Sonic Drive In - grilled cheese, burgers, fries, tater tots, and ice cream shakes to finish it off, all this without even having to step out of our car.  I spoon tiny bites of ice cream into Jack's baby bird mouth.
    Home, naps all 'round.  A little laundry, a little tv, early bedtime.
    In the night, lightning, thunder.  The dog frets, the baby cries.  I pull him out of his crib and into bed with me.  A chubby arm around my neck, wide glistening eyes.  Nestled in the curl of my body, he sleeps.
    August 14

    Thish

    So, on Wednesday the Louisiana Office of Motor Vehicles nearly destroyed my will to live.  I'll spare you the narrative, I'll merely give you a smattering of details and let you paint the picture:

    Notary needed.  No notaries in banks here, but per the teller there is one at Wal Mart. 
    No notary in THIS Wal Mart, you gotta try the another Wal Mart. 
    There's, like, 40 in the immediate vicinity.  Sigh.
    Address wrong on the website
    Driving all over a town where you aren't allowed to make any U-turns (even at lights with green arrows!) trying to find a place that no longer exists
    20 minutes on hold on the phone to ascertain correct location

    Condescending DMV lady on phone
    Lines worthy of Disneyland - lines full of people waiting to take a number so they could sit and wait some more
    Overzealous security guard
    Son and husband left standing outside in the heat to wait, due to overzealous security guard
    People leaving after waiting 2 1/2 hours because it was going to be another 2
    Impossible to get there with the right paperwork
    No one will tell you what the right paperwork is until you stand in a 4 hour line, and then they  make you stand in it again after you go home and get the right paperwork
    Strong incentive to break the law and just forget it
    Leave for the day empty handed and grumpy

    On Thursday, it redeemed itself.  I found  better office with nicer people, who told me (after I took a number and waited 20 minutes) I had the wrong office but I could go to this other one 5 miles away, where I went and took a number and waited an hour.  But after an hour I was helped by a nice person, who did all of my needed items in less than an hour, and with no eyerolls or condescension or personal phone calls (unlike the sewer and water board, where I was subjected to one half of an extremely heated cell phone conversation between the rep helping me and someone with whom she was not pleased.)  Then she told me the camera at this location was broken and I would have to go back to the first office to have my picture taken for my license. 

    But at that office they didn't make me wait in line again.  So there's that.

    Also, I know ALLLLLL about the terrain underneath the Westbank Expressway.  I could give tours of that place.  Which would be helpful to fellow out of town drivers, since most of the street signs have faded in the sun (or have been knocked off) so you just sort of have to guess the right direction.  I knew the DMV was near the police station, so eventually I followed a cop car around til he went "home" and that's how I found it.  That and signs to City Maint. Off., which I correctly deduced was also near the DMV/police station/hell.

    After my wild success, I returned home with the special treat of McDonald's double cheeseburgers in hand, and we decided to further celebrate my victory against The Man by calling it a day and going to the Aquarium of the Americas.  At the start of this Aquarium (of which we are members, so we should be spending quite a bit of time there) it has one of those aquarium tunnels where the fish swim over your head and all around.  Jack was beside himself.  He was at turns scared, thrilled, and kept screaming DOG!  DOG!  It took us half an hour to get out of the tunnel, he was having such a great time in it. 

    There was plenty of space to run and plenty of stuff to touch and nothing pointy or heavy to pull on himself, so we obviously loved it too.  Go, my child, go forth and wear thyself out.  After several hours of us saying "Fish!  Fish!" and him saying "DOG", we were all worn out and headed home.  Then in the car, I said "Did you like the fish, Jack?" and he finally said "Thish."  He said it twice.  I got it on video.  I have proof.

    Now we're home, and I have only a few days before school starts.  I have this ambitious reading schedule, but I've sort of abandoned it for two reasons: (1) I have read a LOT already, and I don't want to be sick of reading before I even start, and (2) there are some things to get the house in order that I need to do.  I am stocking the freezer, making more bread, organizing photos, I swept and mopped the whole house (not an easy feat, I tell you!), and doing every other little thing that I think will need doing between now and December.  I'm battening down the hatches, yo!

    Added some more pictures to the above album.  A few exteriors.  I may upload our aquarium video below, too.  You are awash in media today.  But don't get too used to it . . .



    August 11

    Boom Boom Pow

    Virgil is at my feet, hiding under the dining table with his chin on the top of my left foot.  Just now, Jack and I just barely outran the thundershowers that daily turn this dog into a clingy little scaredy cat.  (Don't tell him I called him the c-word.  He would be so ashamed.)  I don't let the impending storm (there is always, every day, at any time of the day, an impending storm) keep me stuck inside.  We have an umbrella in the diaper bag, one in my purse, two in the trunk of the car, and about seventy hundred next to the door.  You gotta learn quick if you want to survive in the big city.

    Today, before the thunder chased us down the street, before the first few heavy raindrops fell on us one block from the house, spurring mommy to pick up the stroller (kid and all) and run, before that Jack and I had gone to the public library.  I got a library card, and they let me get one for him, too, which he held tightly in his little fist the whole way home.  I chuckled to learn that my son is old enough to have his own card.  It also pleased me and made me proud - look, I have a kid who is old enough to have his own library card, look at me!

    We try, each day, to take a family excursion and learn a little more about our new city.  We almost always walk, and I can't say I miss driving much.  The unfortunate thing (besides the steamy, tropical, oppressive heat) is that the sidewalks are pretty bad.  This city is sinking, and taking a select number of its sidewalk sections with it.  I'm not sure how the lucky few were chosen, but they are randomly dispersed on each city block, making strollering a strategic exercise.  My arms have never been so buff, and my kid has never been so rattled.

    We do not let the sidewalks keep us in, nor the rain, nor the heat!  We are a determined little family of three, and we've walked a hundred miles this week, I think, or thereabouts.  We've been to a couple of parks, a couple of grocery stores (the excitement!), the local Farmer's Market, the Tulane campus, up and down the main shopping street near our place, the local Community Coffee house, and on Saturday we drove into town to attend the festivities for the Red Dress Run, where a bunch of people donned ridiculous red dresses and drank beer at 9am for charity.  Some of them ran the course, but most stayed close to the kegs.  At turns I love my new city, and I miss my old state.  These two feelings comfortably coexist at the moment, and that is ok.

    There are things yet to do, in the week before classes start.  I am reading my primers in a focused and scheduled way, now, with about 200 pages self-assigned each day.  I will be taking four classes (Torts, Criminal Law, Civil Procedure, and Contracts) plus a Legal Writing Seminar.  I love Torts (this is basically people suing each other for things), I love Crim, and I, strangely, love Civ Pro (Civil Procedure is the basics of which courts can try which cases when people sue each other, and it sounds really dry but I find it elegant and easy to understand.)  Contracts and I are learning to coexist peacefully, although I want to chuck it into the trash whenever I can force myself to read it.  I hope I have a good Contracts professor, or I may require copious amounts of wine to get me through.

    My mom comes in a week.  I can't wait to show her our place. 
    August 08

    What Century is This Again?

    There is nowhere to recycle in New Orleans.  No curbside pickup, no places to drop off.  Nagin claims that it costs too much to recycle.  We can't even cart it an hour away to Slidell, because they don't have drop off centers either.  We can spend $15 a month to pay a company to take our household recycling.  Believe me when I tell you that we don't have $15 a month to spare, we are living on a razor's edge here.
     
    Are. You.  Kidding.  Me???
     
    I've been here a week, and already I want to storm the city council. 
     
    I seriously don't know what to do.
    July 16

    This Slogan Could Also Incorporate My Self Since College

    Our old cars:  a sexy silver 2003 Toyota Tacoma featured prominently in the pictures above, which we sold about point oh two seconds after it listed.  And a sturdy blue 2003 Toyota Matrix, slightly more stodgy but gets the job done, which we're going to sell just as soon as we drop the price a touch.  The bank holds these titles.
     
    Our new car: an absolutely enormous silver 2000 Dodge Intrepid.  We hold the title.
     
    Considerably less sexy, but infinitely more practical.
     
    *It has a shifter on the wheel hub (instead of between the seats.)  When driving to the gym today, a sudden rainstorm sprung up, and I came *this* close to shifting into Low Gear while attempting to turn on the windshield wipers.  That could prove a problem.